The Meaning of Genuine Spirituality in Life

If there are fake jewels, fake teachers, fakedimension of our life which is beyond our mundane
soldiers, there can also be fake spirituality. That isworld. Here we acknowledge that there is a reality
why it is most important that we get to the meaningother than that which is seen by our eyes and
of genuine spirituality in life.perceived by other senses and deduced to by our
In a workshop of social scientists where they triedreason.
to define spirituality, they were surprised to find outFourthly, genuine spirituality has to do with the
that they could not come down to an agreedultimate meaning of our life, not just with our present
definition of this term. This is because spirituality hasneeds and desires. There is something more to it
become a very rich concept with its entrance intothan just eating, drinking, and enjoying the present
the social sciences. It has become like the elephantturn of events. Life has a grander purpose than just
to the perception of 7 blind men: one thought it wasthe enjoyment of pleasure.
a tree branch, another thought it was a hand fan,Fifthly, genuine spirituality integrates our life. It makes
etc.us whole. In other words, spirituality is a unifying
But despite their disagreement on its definition, thefactor in our life. It unifies the many elements of our
social scientists agree that they recognize what it islife: the physical, the material, the mental, the psychic,
when they come face to face with it. In otherthe financial, the ups and downs of our life.
words, the meaning of spirituality can be graspedThese are the elements of a genuine spirituality and
intuitively, if not logically.this is from the viewpoint, not of priests, pastors,
The elements in their attempt to get at the meaningreligious people and theologians, but from the
of spirituality are: art, relationship, sacred, ultimateviewpoint of social scientists.
meaning, integrated life, beyond our selves.Now social scientists can spot spirituality when it
First, genuine spirituality is an art. It is not a science. Itappears and they can distinguish the genuine one
is something that we practice, not something thatfrom the fake. It is a very welcome advance of the
we read about and forget, like the characters in asocial sciences. Social scientists now acknowledge
book. It is something that cuts into our personality. Itthat spirituality can be studied empirically, just like any
is something that we are supposed to foster everyother social phenomena. Because of this spirituality
day, otherwise we lose it, like the skill of painting.has a new meaning for all of us. Where before it was
Secondly, genuine spirituality has to do with athe area of theologians and mystics, now it is an area
relationship with others, beyond ourselves. It is notof sociologists and ordinary people like us. It has
delving into ourselves and losing track of the timemore than a theological meaning, spirituality now has
and place we are in. It is not thinking of the I, mea sociological meaning, hopefully its genuine meaning,
and mine. Spirituality is a relating with others.because it is empirically verifiable.
Thirdly, this relating is open to the sacred, that