Everyday Spirituality - Life As Prayer

We are participating in an explosion of new ageintention and focused energy, turn every action into
teaching, interest in eastern religion, and a generalan act of remembrance and service for the Higher
curiosity about the usefulness of everyday spiritualDestiny. Each of us is familiar with going to work or
practice. When you turn on the television, it seemsschool, and using all of our talents and energy to get
just about every talk show host is discussing how toahead so we can personally gain or feel more fulfilled.
maximize human potential and help viewers become aSimilarly, in every action, the spiritual traveler works
more advanced version of self.hard to remember and serve God.
In our effort to reach higher, spirituality is a major•Diversity of Spiritual Experience. Every traveler
interest in the books we read, the classes we take,has spiritual experience; these experiences are natural
and the inner peace we want to find. Accordingly,and emerge, in part, from our very composition.
there is growing dialog concerning differencesMany times, these experiences are often not
between traditional religious teaching and a form ofunderstood as such to be spiritual, seemingly
spiritual practice termed: everyday spirituality ormysterious, and usually quickly forgotten. Often, they
spirituality of the market place. Interestingly enough,may come in the form of an intuition about
the usefulness of spiritual practice in everyday life issomething that occurs or a happy, positive energy
an ancient teaching, and lies at the heart of humanand sense of being connected to everything.
development systems like Sufism; where travelersTraditionally, spiritual experiences are given so the
are taught, through ordinary daily activity, to aligntraveler can learn and move forward. These are not
with the Higher and make life a prayer.the goal of the journey; they are foretastes of a
To help travelers add this practical approach, we willhigher state of awareness, which are as varied and
examine the basic difference between traditionalnatural, as spiritual travelers themselves. Typically, in
religious form and spirituality; offering various 'thingstime with training, travelers recognize these
to know, and things to do' while following a personalexperiences as spiritual, because they are unlike other
spiritual path.forms of mental or emotional consciousness, and
Religion may be comparedlearn to move beyond them.
To a great river that feeds the land.Things to Do
The River winds its way as a mighty forceIn order to help prepare travelers for their own
And smaller tributaries are formed to serve thespiritual experience, the following techniques, actions,
distant regions.and exercises are offered.
Some are satisfied•Quiet, Alone Time. Daily, each traveler needs to
To drink of the small streamset aside 10-20 minutes to travel inward. This is
And forget they must travelpersonal time where the external noise of the world
The river to its Source.can be turned-off and an examination of the many
Beyond the river's gateparts of self may be conducted. Even busy mothers
The Ocean is waiting.or executives must be 'selfish' about this, and take
Religion &. Spiritualitythe time to do something for self. Over time, we
For spiritual travelers, at some point, it becomes clearmust identify the many selves so we can push them
that new age and eastern systems offer techniquesaside for a time, and unlock what lies beyond daily
that speak to the basic difference between religiousconsciousness. Going inward, may be accomplished
form and personal spiritual experience. While allthrough prayer, journaling, meditation, or at day's
traditional religious systems are based upon spiritualend, observing the repeating patterns of thought.
teachings, inner personal experience is not always•Travel Inward. Find a hobby or activity that you
emphasized and many travelers leave the religion ofenjoy where you can express your inner self. If it is
their birth with a deep, inner hunger that religiousworking on a craft, reading uplifting material,
form did not completely fill.gardening, going for a walk, listening to relaxing music,
In the beginning stages of any learning, adherence tocollecting coins, or taking a yoga or exercise class,
form is essential; and as the traveler matures in theiryou want to learn to express the many, hidden parts.
traditional religious training, a deeper more personalEach of us has a creative, spiritual potential, and in
experience may be available. However, manythe beginning you must make time to explore and
travelers leave for a variety of reasons or getrefine it. The creative expression of the artist or
'turned off' long before this happens. One of mycraftsmen, where numerous factors come together;
spiritual teachers used to say: 'after you have studiedonce experienced, will help expand your daily
with me and experienced the Light, you will return toconsciousness and help you begin to perceive what is
the religion of your birth and become a betterpossible.
Christian, Jew or Muslim.'•Give to Others. Part of healthy, balanced living
External Form. In viewing traditional religious teachingand ordinary social duty is being part of a family or
and spiritual experience, it is important to discuss thecommunity, and giving to others. If you have time,
difference between internal and external reality. Mostvolunteer once a week at the local hospital, or nightly
of us are familiar with the external form of religioushelp your children do their homework. Perhaps, listen
teaching; usually this was the presentation offeredto the problems of a neighbor, join the local food
during our early child hood and emphasized standardpantry, or routinely give to your favorite charity. This
prayers, teachings, and social prescription which wasactivity of giving should be entered into freely,
directed at a large segment of humanity.without resentment or repeated troubling thoughts
Over the centuries, this is the part that lookslike, people tell me I need to do this. If you cannot
different, because it is and changes; external formdo this without displeasure, wait until you can. Then
varies depending upon culture, geography, historicalobserve the many benefits.
context, and the changing needs of the receiving•Seek the Higher Road. You know, most of us
community. Because this part is not the same, and isknow what the right thing is; we are born with an
tied to time and place, it confuses people; this is theinner sense of correct action and helping others.
part that travelers argue and fight about it. Yet,Religion prescribes service and giving activity, because
internally all forms at their highest level are one,we forget or the business part of religion kicks in; a
united in spirit.certain amount of money is needed to run the
Internal Form. The internal or spiritual essence whichoperation. In your conversation and daily activity, try
gives life to the external religious form is a living,to help, not hurt; as a guide, listen to your own inner
vibrant element. This part, termed the Light in somevoice, which is a natural barometer. In the healthy
presentations, is the inner core or life current to thepersonality, there is a balance between our own
external form. This is the part which fuels theneeds and the needs of others. It is only when we
updating of the Teaching into a newer presentation,are fearful, angry, or hurt that we seek to do harm.
and the grace which enables the living teacher orWhen possible, avoid action when you are feeling this
exemplar to function. This is the spiritual essence, theway.
new age traveler seeks to embrace, and become•Pray. As part of our childhood, most of us have
one with.been taught specific prayers; some of these prayers
Religion is like a beautiful maiden, who to fit thebecome part of our lives and others we leave behind.
changing weather, wears an assortment of clothing.Usually, specific prayers are different than praying.
Some days, because the weather is cold or sunny,Prayer is a song that arises from your heart that you
her outer garments are different. If you were towish to share with God. This is a communication that
describe her on these days, one day she would besprings from your very essence and cannot be
the maiden in the tall woolen hat, scarf across hertaught; it is already part of you. Daily, spend time
face and long coat, and on another day, the womentalking with God; on a deep inner level, there is a part
in the light, bright, yellow cotton dress. On the firstthat is most like God. Experience that part; that is
day, not seeing her covered face, some observersour spiritual center and has traditionally been called
might be fooled and argue or disagree about the'the heart.'
woman's identity or description on the second day;•Consciousness Building Activity. Daily in the
not realizing underneath the various clothing, it is thebeginning, each traveler needs to add consciousness
same young woman wearing the light cotton dress.expanding and focusing activity. One of the most
Things to Knowfamiliar exercises is meditation, because it teaches
In this section, to help spiritual travelers realize theirmany things: skills like concentration, focus, and
own inner potential, we will examine some of theswitching attention back to the focus word or
postulants or learning statements that must beobject. If you have trouble meditating, try another
understood about everyday spirituality.activity, such as prayer or Reflecting the Light. This
•You Already Are Spiritual. This is true, and antype of exercise may be learned from a book, class,
overriding theme of new age systems and easternor a teacher; for many it is part of the learning
traditions. We are spiritual beings who have enteredrequired, to still and push aside that which stands in
the earth phase to learn, experience, serve and beour way.* Usually, specific exercises are bridges to
co-creators. When you are ready, no one can standsomething else, and as such, intended for fixed
between you and personal, inner, spiritual experience.periods.
However, getting ready to unlock your own•Physical Exercise/Healthy Living. Because we are
experience is the challenge, often requiring learningmulti-level beings, we must maintain a balance, or
the right things, in the right order, with the righthealthy level of homeostasis, so we can access what
people.lies deep within. When we are in physical or emotional
•Living In the World Blocks Spiritual Experience. Forpain, it is very difficult to travel inward. Also, when
the most part, every day activity, work, and worryour muscles are tense and we are experiencing
block the inner awareness from coming forward.troubling, repeating thoughts, the journey inward is
When focusing on daily life, the 'noise' or vibration offurther slowed. That is why often the prescription to
this activity prevents the inner awareness from beingmake the daily, inner journey is begun with a
accessed and perceived. With a period of training,cleansing of sorts. As a form of readiness, a hot,
travelers can be taught to operate both streams ofrelaxing shower to clean-off the 'dirt' of the day, or a
consciousness simultaneously. However, this is not adeep breathing exercise to connect with our inner
static condition; the capacity to tune in and use therhythm and bring refreshing air and oxygen into our
higher consciousness, comes and goes, dependingsystem, is often suggested. Relaxing, cleansing
upon the traveler's capacity and higher needs of theactivity helps tune and make us ready to connect
situation.with our inner current.
•Consciously, We Create Our Own Reality. All life•Intention. Just about any activity may be done
operates through consciousness; which is awarenessfor the Higher Destiny; when we are vacuuming the
and energy on multiple physical, mental, emotional andhouse, driving our children to school or commuting to
spiritual levels. Through our soul, which is comprisedwork, by offering-up this activity to the Higher, the
of a spiritual energy fabric, we create our ownactivity becomes something we no longer do for self,
multiple level realities, every moment of the day. Andbut to make the world a little better.* When you
because we are both different and the same, wearise in the morning, who do you go to work for?
share reality we both agree upon and experienceAre you working solely for self or to help others and
uniquely.yourself? Are you picking-up children at the sitters
•A Completed Person Adds Spiritual Awareness.and raising them to be more complete people, or
The goal of spiritual paths, is to add a measure ofbetter consumers of all the things they want? Begin
conscious, spiritual awareness to the traveler'sto consider your motivation and intention, so, you
individual life and day; this awareness serves as ancan turn it over to the higher, and travel further.
enriching, enabling element so the traveler can•Repeating the Holy Name. In some traditions,
complete daily and higher functions. Each traveler istravelers are taught by very slowly repeating the
unique, and as such has an individual life plan whichHoly Name, with love and reverence over and over,
ultimately leads them to join in as co-creator, helpingthroughout the day and their lives, they will reach
to influence their own and higher destiny of others.journey's end. Attached to this Name there is Light
Traditionally, in this realm, the completed person isand energy; when you align with the Highest,
God's deputy or vicegerent.gradually, you become one with the Highest.
•Living Exemplars. In many new age and easternThroughout the day, try this simple technique of
traditions, the living teacher or exemplar serves asrepeating the Name; see what happens. What do
guide to lead the traveler higher. Through the graceyou have to loose?
of the path, this person serves higher functions;•Practice Gratitude. When you are feeling down,
enabling others to embrace their own latent capacity.sad or depressed, practice gratitude. When you are
This person has a duty to discharge and uses theat your lowest, take a personal inventory and
natural, spiritual laws, to help others reach completion.number those things for which you are grateful.
Unfortunately, there are many imitators, andThank yourself or thank the universe for placing
travelers need to be cautious; by tradition, thethese things, people, or events into your life. Do this
authentic teacher is the earth's greatest resource.over and over; in using this repetitive cycle of
•Religion as Business. In every age, religion andreplacement thought, which recounts the good in
spirituality have been used as a camouflage andyour life; you will change your consciousness and the
business; a way to gain power, money, or satisfyenergy being created. This more positive thought
personal emotional needs. Just because something ispattern has healthy and regenerating energy
wrapped in spiritual garb, it does not mean that it willattached to it. Every one has many things for which
not take from you. In fact, this tendency to usethey can be grateful. Think about it.
spiritual forms in order to achieve selfish and harmful•Good Deeds. Daily, do something positive,
ends, historically, has driven many away and throwngenerous, or helpful for another person. Make a list of
one religion against another; and in our world today,good deeds or positive actions that you want to
this is one of the most harmful elements.accomplish for others. In performing this positive
•Use Your Common Sense. In selecting a path, ifactivity, the good feelings you generate, will be your
something seems to be too good or easy, itreward and the energy attached to your feelings,
probably is; and the traveler needs to be wary ofgradually, will change you. If you no longer need to
systems that 'guarantee success in 10 easy steps.' Indo these things to help feel better, than do these
this endeavor, no one can guarantee anything; yourthings for others and the Higher Destiny. By making
progress along the Path is dependent upon youryour deeds an offering; you will be joining in the
correct effort and the Grace of God. Also, someHigher Destiny and consciously moving along the Path.
Paths prescribe a certain dress, way to look or•Take a Class: If you have time, take a class on
similarity of action; they are not flexible about thisspirituality or read a new self improvement book.
and codes are strictly enforced. If you areChallenge yourself, learn something new and examine
uncomfortable with these rules, or there seems towhat is happening in this exciting world. Do not be
be too much emphasis upon the Master, listen toafraid to critically examine your own or society's
your inner own voice; it is there to protect you.most cherished beliefs; because that is how the
Remnant sects abound, and your own individual Path,journey to personal enlightenment and higher
should be as natural to you as drinking a fresh, clearknowledge begin.
glass of water.Life as Prayer
•Selecting a Path. The reason there are manyFor the Sufi, daily life and traveling down the highway
Paths, is that travelers are different, with changingis potentially a prayer. Every moment is an
needs. If you are not satisfied with the religion ofopportunity to align personal action with the Higher
your birth, ask and petition The Radiances of TruthImpulse. Through intention and by temporarily
for a new path to open to you; then when itsurrendering individual need, the spiritual traveler
appears, follow it to completion. Remember, in thismakes their commute to work a prayer of
matter, there are 2 considerations; first, what Pathjoyfulness and service.
seems most natural and second, which Path reachesWe were created to participate in everyday affairs,
out and embraces you.using our diverse range of skills to make the world
•Life as Prayer. In some traditions, the goal of thebetter.
spiritual traveler is to make their life a prayer; throughLet every action become a prayer.